What Am I: I am an empathic, compassionate, emotional/physical intimacy master/provider.
Height: 5'8" (1.72 cm)
Weight: 165 lbs (75 kg)
Hair: Crewcut or sometimes bald
Facial hair: Either clean shaven or buzzed
Body hair: Trimmed
Body type: Athletic medium build
Tattoos: 2
Piercings: 2
Sexual Preference: Versatile
Health Status: Fully vaccinated (COVID, MP), HIV negative
Email me at shpj.us@gmail.com or text me at (646) 481-7720
Intimacy, sexuality, and bonding are essential aspects of a man's emotional and mental well-being. Unfortunately, both traditional and modern Western culture has perpetuated harmful norms that suppress men's needs for vulnerability, emotional expression, and closeness with others. This societal conditioning often leads to feelings of guilt and shame. Compounding the issue, many bodyworkers, influenced by the same cultural biases, struggle to provide the necessary emotional safety, compassion, and understanding to address these critical aspects. Sacred sexual healing offers a holistic approach, embracing physical, emotional, and mental connection to foster profound, lasting, and transformative experiences.
Defying societal norms, my practice recognizes that men deserve nurturing care, empathetic listening, and validation. Through heartfelt male bonding, I create a safe, judgment-free space for authentic connection. My sessions prioritize mindfulness, compassion, and respect, guiding your entire being—mind, body, and spirit—on a transformative journey. My intention is to empower you with a profound sense of security and vulnerability, shedding inhibitions and societal conditioning that hinder meaningful male-to-male intimacy. By embracing this liberating experience, you'll unlock a deeper connection with yourself and others, positively impacting all aspects of your life.
Please note that this is just a full listing of services. You choose what you want to experience and all boundaries will be respected.
• Therapeutic: Scalp, neck, shoulders, upper back, lower back, buttocks, legs, calves, abdomen, chest, hands, and feet.
• Energy Work: Everything is energy; so is your body. Modern times can wreak havoc causing stress and anxiety. My techniques will help harmonize your chakras using sound, crystals, and tuning forks creating a soothing, relaxing and healing experience.
• Tantric Erogenous Zones Massage: Ear lobes, sides of neck, inner arms and pits, nipples, sides of chest, inner thighs, perineum, scrotum, frenulum, feet.
• Grooming/Manscaping
• Tantric Erogenous Zones Massage
STANDARD PRIME
• $150/60 min
• $225/90 min
• $300/2.0 hrs
• $375/2.5 hrs
MARATHON BLISS
• $450/3.0 hrs
• $750/Overnight
Payment methods: Cash and Zelle only.
Cancellation policy: Full agreed agreed rate must be paid if cancelling within 12 hours of the scheduled time either by Zelle (preferable) or Venmo. Half rate must be paid if cancelling more than 12 hours of the scheduled time either by Zelle (preferable) or Venmo.
• Tantric Lingam/Guda Massage & Worshiping: Inspired by a Japanese erotic massage technique, the prostate, anus, perineum, scrotum, penis (shaft, frenulum, corona), and/or anus are massaged with a special, odorless, greaseless, but very stimulating massage gel.
• Secret Boyfriend/Lover Experience: For those who want to fully surrender to an intimate, intense and sensual experience full of care, compassion, bliss, and fun. Details and specifics can be discussed before the session.
• Master/Submissive Play: For those who want to explore or experience their submissive side or want someone else to take the lead. Details and specifics can be discussed before the session.
• Unscented massage oil (Coconut oil & Vitamin E)
• Nuru massage gel
• 3 mid sized butt plugs
• Relaxing, meditative/lounge music
• Color LED lighting for mood setting
• Handcuffs, flogger, restraints, and blindfold
• (for Master/Submissive Play).
• MAGNUM BareSkin Condoms
• be age 40 or older, in a long term relationship with a partner or spouse, separated, divorced, or widowed. I do not cater to single men at this time.
• be drug and disease free, but 420 vape is fine
• have optimal hygiene (that includes penile and anal)
Intimacy & Connection
• Seeking genuine male bonding
• Lover/boyfriend experience without drama
• Lacking intimacy in long term relationship
• Seeking confidential support
Personal Growth
• Seeking creative inspiration and self awareness
• Open to redefining male intimacy and love
• Seeking spiritual healing and growth
Desires & Exploration
• Exploring new experiences or first time intimacy
• Submissive seeking trusted partner
• Seeking masculine, nurturing touch
Wellness & Stress
• Stressed by work, family, and societal expectations
• Needing "me" time and relaxation
• Seeking safe, comfortable environment
Self Discovery & Empowerment
• Breaking free from societal conditioning
• Embracing male bonding without labels
• Finding peace with suppressed desires
High Quality Experience
• Seeking high quality personal attention
• Desiring honest, caring, and skilled practitioner
• Valuing cleanliness, comfort, and spirituality
• I have been to other bodyworkers, but they lack the compassion and care men desperately need. How are you any different?
For over fifteen years, I've provided a sanctuary for men seeking support with a range of personal struggles, from trauma and medical concerns to emotional neglect and isolation. Many have found themselves deprived of meaningful attention and understanding from their partners, and crave a safe, non-judgmental space to share their stories with another man. My expertise lies in creating a compassionate and nurturing environment where men can shed societal expectations, embrace vulnerability, and reconnect with their authentic selves. Here, intimacy is redefined as a profound, spiritual, and loving experience.
• What length is ideal to have the full experience?
For a truly immersive experience, I recommend a minimum of 90 minutes. Feedback from past clients confirms that this allows for a more relaxed pace, enabling us to connect, discuss intentions, and transition smoothly without feeling rushed. While 60 minutes is an introduction, 90 minutes or more provides the optimal space to unwind, engage fully, and savor the experience.
• I have gone to places where the place is creepy, dirty and unsafe. How are you any different?
I prioritize our comfort and well-being by carefully selecting reasonable locations that ensure a safe and serene atmosphere. Attention to detail is crucial to me, and I believe that a thoughtfully chosen environment reflects my commitment to excellence. By hosting in these settings, I create a tranquil space where we can both feel at ease, relaxed, and secure, allowing us to focus on the experience.
• Do you cater to secretly submissive men?
Indeed, I warmly welcome and support secretly submissive men. In this sanctuary, you'll find a space to surrender control and explore your submissive side without judgment. I'll expertly navigate the dynamic, ensuring your comfort and consent every step of the way. My approach prioritizes empathy, trust, and mutual respect, focusing on gentle guidance rather than degradation or humiliation. Through open communication, we'll explore your desires, needs, and boundaries beforehand to create a safe and tailored experience.
• Can you come to my home, office, or hotel room?
Depending on your location and ample planning, yes. Contact me and tell me your location and if adequate public transportation is available, I will come to you.
• This is my first time being with a man and I'm really nervous. How will you help me relax?
Please know you're in a safe and understanding space. Many clients have entrusted me with their first male-to-male experience, and I'm honored to guide you through yours. To ease any nervousness, we'll begin with a soothing massage, allowing you to become comfortable with my touch. As we progress, I invite you to connect with me physically, perhaps with gentle contact on my waist or thighs. This reciprocal touch fosters a sense of mutual comfort and trust. My priority is ensuring your relaxation and peace of mind, setting the stage for a profoundly positive experience. Feel free to communicate your needs and boundaries at any moment. My goal is to create a sanctuary where you feel empowered to explore, at your own pace, and return if you wish.
• Will you ejaculate?
Given the physical demand of my work, it's impossible to ejaculate with every client. Keep in mind that this session is FOR YOU and it's my intent to please and take care of you.
• Are poppers or recreational drugs allowed?
I don't use poppers myself, however I'm not opposed to you using them. I am 420 friendly as long as it's in vape or edible form.
• Are you into giving and/or receiving anal penetration?
Yes. I am versatile, so I can give and/or receive. All anal intercourse is performed with protection, however, given the physical demand of my work, I cannot guarantee I'll be able to give and/or receive in every session.
• I use Viagra, Cialis, etc. Is that okay?
Not a problem.
• A side of the toys you have, can I bring some of my own as well?
In addition to the butt plugs, vibrators, and dildos, and blindfolds that I carry, yes, you can bring your own as well.
• What if I just want to cuddle and talk?
Absolutely we can. You can always let me know of your needs at any moment.
• What is a lingam massage/worshiping?
Lingam massage is a beautiful and mindful practice rooted in the traditions of southeastern Asia. It focuses on gently and lovingly stimulating the penis, including the shaft, balls, perineum (the area between the balls and the anus), and anus. This intimate experience helps release pent-up sexual energy and can lead to a deeply fulfilling full-body, mental, and spiritual sensation. With a skilled and attentive approach, you may discover the ability to enjoy longer and more intense orgasms. A key area of focus during this practice is the frenulum, which is a particularly sensitive spot on the underside of the penis. Many find this area to be quite responsive to gentle touch, making it a source of great pleasure. Some people even refer to this area as the man's "f-spot," and it's noted that stimulating the corona and frenulum can lead to heightened sensations and even multiple orgasms. You have the choice to enjoy one big climax at the end or to experience several throughout the session, depending on your preference.
• What is a guda massage/worshiping?
Guda is a gentle and enjoyable practice that focuses on the area around the anus, using slow, soothing movements that can create a wonderful sensation throughout your body. I see it as a beautiful way to show appreciation for you and your amazing body, while also providing a calming experience for both of us. Many have found it helpful for issues like erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation. The process is all about care and attention, without any rush. From my experience, it’s a fantastic way to relieve stress, leaving you feeling light, relaxed, and energized afterwards. It can truly be a unique and intense experience!
• What about if I have prostate issues, premature ejaculation or other medical issues?
I understand that dealing with physical concerns, whether related to the penis or other areas, can leave men feeling a bit lost and vulnerable. It's completely normal to have these feelings, and you’re not alone in this journey. I genuinely care about men’s health and well-being, and I want you to know that my sessions are here to support you. Together, we can explore ways to help you find joy and fulfillment, no matter what challenges you may be facing. You deserve to experience happiness and connection, and I’m here to help you every step of the way.
• I'm interested in booking a session with you. What is the next step?
Email me at shpj.us@gmail.com or text me at (646) 481-7720.nd tale
• Wethersfield, CT
Since Samu-El offers a bit of a different massage experience, I wasn’t quite sure what to expect. Nonetheless, I took a leap of faith and scheduled a 90-min session. I was rewarded for that decision. From the moment I walked though the door - it was as if I was greeted by intuition. With little, if any, discussion - he provided exactly what I was looking for. At one point, I referred to his work as magical - NO EXAGGERATION! He brought me places I’ve never been before, nothing short of amazing. What’s more - he’s a kind, sweet guy. Looking forward to his return to my neighborhood.
• White Marsh, MD
After viewing the most organized website available, I contacted Samu-El for the password. His website is very detailed, it is obvious that Samuel wants your time with him be very pinpoint and detailed. So convenient to schedule a session and to let him know exactly what you are looking during your session. After scheduling my session, I was very excited about meeting him. On the day of my session when Samuel opened the door, I was warmly greeted by a beautiful man, a huge smile and a very tight squeeze...WOW!!! Without a doubt, I knew I was in excellent hands and had made the perfect choice. We chatted for a bit to confirm the type of massage I was seeking. From that point on, I was floating on cloud nine. He started at my shoulders, working his way down, playing my body like an instrument...leaving not one nook or cranny neglected. SIMPLY AMAZING!!! Finding a few tight spots, he worked them out with techniques that I was not familiar with. Samuel was gentle, but yet aggressive when I requested. His pressure is perfect, his hands were heavenly and his body is beautiful, ..I call that a sweet session!! If you are looking for a massage from an organized professional, who cares deeply for his clients, schedule with Samu-El for a no-rush, relaxing, blissful and enjoyable session. Today is a good day, for a good day...please make this talented man part of it!!!
• Washington, DC
After reading Samu-El's ad, I was very intrigued by how he actually seemed to be serious about making sure his clients have a good experience. As I followed the easy-to-follow instructions for scheduling an appointment, I was surprised by the amount of detail I was asked to provide regarding what I wanted out of our time together. I took this as a good sign that this guy might actually care about tailoring a session specifically to fit my desires - what a concept! When we actually met, I was greeted by a very warm, friendly welcoming, and attractive man. He mentioned that he had reviewed all of the information I had previously supplied and was looking forward to providing the type of session I desired. Samu-El DELIVERED! My session was personally tailored to my desires and was absolutely one of the most enjoyable experiences I have ever had! This man actually cares about his clients. Not once did I feel that he was a cookie-cutter, mechanical, uninterested masseur, many of which I have met. And, not once did I felt rushed or felt like Samu-El would rather be with anyone other than me! Samu-El is a professional who takes his clients desires seriously, and you owe it to yourself to book a session with this incredible man now!
• Poughkeepsie, NY
Samu-El is a gifted empath, healer and a garden of earthly delights who will meet you wherever you are and take you further. I'm straight and he gradually made me comfortable and then took me on a journey to a place i never knew existed, doing so with incredible kindness, skill and of course, heat. He's a sorcerer of the male body. Run, don't walk to a session with him. And then float home on the magic carpet he's installed beneath your feet.
• Monroe, NY
Samu-El paid extra attention to my body to help relieve the unbelievable stress I had developed through the day. When I walked through the door the first thing he did was wrap his arms around me and we embraced for a few minutes just to help let the stress flow right out of my body. We just laid there for a bit then he started his magic. His warm touch just seemed to melt my body into the soft warm bed that we were using. His unbelievable attention to the parts of the male anatomy he pays strict attention to helped relieve stress even more. He applied some new technique's which made the experience even better. I left there feeling totally relaxed wanting more but I don't think I would have been able to get up and walk out the door if I stayed. Samu-El is definitely the one I will come to over and over again. I won't go to another masseur again but him. I suggest you do the same. He now offers locations in quite a few areas so it should make him available that much better for you. Samu-El you are the best. Thanks a bunch.
• Wayne, NJ
Honestly I am almost at a loss for words to describe the 2 hours I spent with Samu-El. Blissful probably sums it up best, but still seems to fall short. From the warm embrace the moment I walked in to that same warm embrace when I left, peace and tranquility abounded. I had read his reviews and thought wow... people really get into this guy... then I contacted him, checked out his site and it was as if he was speaking only to me. I hope this just does not come off sounding "hoaky", but this guy is just amazing. He truly takes you away from any care you have and relaxes you without you even realizing it is happening. I have never felt so great during and after a massage...and probably because it is not just a massage, it is a journey with an amazing leader. Samu-El so listens to you, he sat and chatted with me for 15 minutes first, asked what I wanted/needed, he is patient, takes his time, constantly asks your needs and fulfills them. His smile could get him ANYTHING he wanted. When you are staring up at his face and he is smiling, there is nothing else going on around you but him. He is present in every moment and got me to be also! Not sure what else I can say...incredible guy, very handsome/sexy, easy going, etc. Don't pass him up, he can truly change your outlook, you will definitely go away from your time with him feeling better about who you are. Samu-El thank you again, it does not seem enough to say that, but it's from the heart my friend.
Email me at shpj.us@gmail.com or text me at (646) 481-7720
